Should I friend the really hot girl I work with on facebook?

I'm happily married and don't want her but I feel my wife would wonder if I friend this woman. She is extremely attractive and honestly better looking conventionally than my wife. The problem is I know she trusts me but not really. Like all women there is a competitive streak and this girl might make a work reference in a comment that my wife doesn't understand and interpret it as sexual even though it isn't.

So is it even worth it? I don't want to make it weird by rejecting the request and if my wife ever meets her I don't want it to be weird that I've never mentioned her because I don't want her having to think I'm doing something with this woman when I have no intention to do so. It's solely a working friendly relationship.
By hosobro 6 years ago :: Workplace/Co-workers
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