How can I get my daughter-in-law to acknowledge me as her sons grandmother

I am the second wife and my daughter in law only tells our only grandsons to call my husband grandpa and call me by my name which I feel is sad. We both love these kids but because I am the second wife, she told them that their grandma died and that my husband is grandpa and I am not the grandmother.. She also has an older son by a previous relationship and he also calls me by my name and not grandma but he at the same time, he calls my husband grandpa. Its her doing. The sad part is my husband is a lot older than I am and most likely if anything were to happen to him, I would be the only grandparent left with the exception of her family. Its sad. She should realize this. She's so stupid.
By Blkgalusa2 4 years ago :: Family (Extended)
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