Should I keep going or move on?

I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months and a half. We have plenty in common. I've been over her house and have been introduced to her family. She hasn't been over to my house because of work scheduling. We've had sex multiple times and we've talked about our feelings towards each other.

We haven't officially labeled ourselves as a couple and that bothers me. I've asked her to be my girlfriend once and she literally wouldn't answer me. She later apologized for not answering me, but she wouldn't tell me why. She's had a bad relationship with her ex and she has stated to me that she's scared of relationships. I get that, but why go so far as to sex and introducing me to the family if i'm nothing more than a tool? I'm not sure what to do. I asked her to be my girl over two weeks ago.
By Slope22 3 years ago :: Dating
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