WHO SHOULD I SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH?

I HAD THIS BOYFRIEND WHO WAS A GREAT GUY BUT WORKED A LIL TOO MUCH, AND HE WAS IN DENILE OF THE LACK OF COMMITMENT. AFTER TWO YEARS OF BEING WITH HIM,I ASKED HIM TO GET AN APT. WHEN HIS LEASE WAS UP.HE WENT BEHIND MY BACK AND GOT ONE FOR HIMSELF. SO NEEDLESS TO SAY, I LEFT.
I STARTED DATING SOMEONE NEW, WHO IS ALSO A GREAT GUY, HOWEVER, IS THE TOTAL OPPISITE OF THE EX, INSTEAD OF BEING A "WORK-A-HOLIC", HE IS TOO LAZY.HOWEVER, I NEVER "CLICKED" WITH ANYONE ELSE, LIKE I HAVE WITH HIM. WE SEEM SO PERFECT TOGETHER. WE WERE SUPPOSE TO BE ENGAGED UNDER THE CONDITIONS THAT HE WOULD GET A JOB AND BE ABLE TO BE A GOOD ROLE MODEL FOR MY 7 YR. OLD SON. HOWEVER,A YEAR LATER, HE STILL HASNT DONE WHAT HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO DO, AND I HAVE CALLED THE ENGAGMENT OFF.WE STILL TALK AND HE STILL INSISTS THAT HE WILL, IM JUST NOT SO SURE. I HAVE SEEN MY EX HERE AND THERE, AND WE HAVE BEEN CATCHING UP ON OLD TIMES, AS FRIENDS. AND HE NOW TELLS ME, HES READY TO SETTLE DOWN,AND HE MADE A BIG MISTAKE ON LETTING ME GO, AND ALL HE WANTS IS TO BE WITH ME. HE NEVER MOVED ON, AND IS JUST WAITING FOR ME TO COME BACK. WE WENT OUT THE OTHER DAY, AND WE HAD A BLAST! I CAN TELL BY HIS EYES,THAT HE STILL LOVES ME. IM SO CONFUSED, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! PLEASE HELP.