Do you think he has something to hide?

My husband of 4 years is acting strange. Protecting his phone 24/7, I checked the phone records and he is texting a woman he used to work with almost daily, and talking to her to. When I got the chance to check his cell, all the text were erased, even his out box. Who does that? And her number wasn't saved in his phone. My gut tells me his is hiding something but when I asked him he said no. Now he wants to end his contract (we have a family plan all under my name) and get is own separate from me so I can't see who he is talking to. Am I over reacting? Am I violating his privacy?
By Rach27 10 years ago :: Marriage
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