Does my boyfriend have unrealistic expectations?

My boyfriend of 7 months gets mad about everything, assumes the worst, trusts no one, and takes it out on me. We live together, he pays the majority of the rent, I pay utilities and a portion of the rent. He expects me to pay bills and be a stepford wife all in the same breath. He'll get mad if I don't answer my phone(if I'm sleeping or showering), if I have to work late, if I drive too slow, if I drive too fast, if I wear sweatpants to bed, if I don't cook dinner, if I don't follow his "rules", if he has to tell me something more than once (even if I don't agree), if I don't initiate intimacy and then do all the work etc.

He thinks because he comes home every night, pays the majority of the bills( keep in mind that he makes roughly about 11 times what my yearly salary is), takes me out when I ask him to, that I will be his "yes" woman, sex slave, maid, driver, and servant.

I disagree wholeheartedly with his mindframe. I don't have a ring on my finger, I still work full time and pay all of my bills and some household bills, I like for my man to be romantic and sweet, and I don't take kindly to someone trying to undermine who I am and run my life because they think they know better.
By Gemini_27 9 years ago :: Dating
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