He went from touching me everyday, to not wanting sex.. unless I beg or bargin with him? Whats wrong with me?

married for 16 years been together for 18 years, we are 33 and 34 years old. Two kids, 15 and 8. We use to have a great sex life. We had sex aleast every other day! Now we Might have sex 3 times a MONTH! If we do have sex it last for less than 5 mins, then he's done and ready to roll over and go to sleep! We don't spend much time apart, he has no time for cheating! I have tried Toys,Movies, sexy outfits, we have expolored with different positions. He just don't even really look at me anymore. What is wrong with me? What can I do? I have talked to him about it, he just say's nothing is wrong with me,
He's just tired. I mean we don't touch, snuggle, hold hands, sit next to each other.

I am a very lovable person, I need to feel wanted. I am 33 yrs old. I don't want to grow old with him, and live a life of never haveing sex, unless I beg or bargin with him! Please help any advice would help!
Much apreacted
By melissa76 9 years ago :: Marriage
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