How do you get a spouce to clean up after himself?

I am always cleaning up after my husband - sometimes just leaving it but he always puts off cleaning up after himself later - like the next day. I made the comment to him that cleaning is a lot easier if "someone" just cleans up after himself and he reacted angrily: "I am not going to hear you 'rag' on me so I am not going to talk about it!"
By jlltraindriver 10 years ago :: Marriage
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