how do i get my husband to see how his 21 old daughter is ruining our marriage?

she lives on her own-my 19 yr old son lives with us. husband has parented my son, and said some pretty nasty stuff to him, but when I was annoyed with stepdaughter about a situation she created with her drama (she is a true drama queen), and calmly talked to her about it (even though she was screaming at me the entire time on the phone), he still won't accept her rudeness and now he has left the house -stating he wants a divorce. we've been together 6 yrs-married 1 1/2 yrs
By whyme 9 years ago :: Marriage
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