HOW CAN I GET MY BF TO CHANGE HIS MIND ABOUT ADOPTING A CAT?

MY BF AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER THREE YEARS,WE WERE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP FOR A YEAR AND A HALF.THEN I PICKED UP MY LIFE AND MOVED OUT TO HIS AREA.AT FIRST I HAD MY OWN PLACE BUT KNOW WE LIVE TOGETHER.I HAVE TWO CALICO CATS AND ONE BLACK LAB.ONE OF MY CATS BEATS UP THE BLACK LAB LITERLY WILL STALK HER AND TRY TO HIT HER IN THE EYE.SHES AWFUL.WELL I WENT TO THE HUMANE SOCIETY AND FOUND A CAT THAT GETS ALONG WITH DOGS.AND I WANT HER.BUT MY BF SAYS NO.I WOULD GIVE THE ONE CAT BACK TO MY MOM.AND JUST HAVE MY OTHER CAT AND THE NEW ONE.BUT STILL ITS A NO.SO HOW CAN I GET HIM TO CHANGE HIS MIND?
By SBELLA1988 9 years ago :: General
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