what to do when you feel things are one sided ?

when it comes to what he wants its important, if he feels hurt we will talk about it, if he wants to do something we will do it. ok me if i wanna talk about our relationship he freaks calls me names ect not important ,he called the other day said he was going away for the weekend to help a friend did I care , yes I did but it didnt matter called sunday coming home I said i might not be home he says oh real nice so i stayed home he got home left with a friend to help him with something, we werent feeling the greatest he didnt care, He is all for himself nothing i wanna do matters or talk about ect but he loves me, I sold my house to move in with him and when he gets mad its my house ,