What Happened To Chivalry?

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Side 1 says...
When we dated and were engaged, David would open doors, pull out my chair at dinner, buy me random gifts, hold my umbrella, and make me breakfast every morning. Now that we've been married 3 months, all those things have disappeared.

He's attitude hasn't changed. He's still the sweet guy I've always been with. It just seems like he's starting to move into marriage mode where those things mean less to him now. It's OK at times but even my friends are starting to comment on it. I don't think I've changed at all. I still do everything that I used to and more. I'm not mad. Just a little worried he's changing.
Added by DollyinPGH (female)
Side 2 says...
Hello. I still do those things for you. Maybe I forget occasionally but you always remember everything. But, since you are bringing up changes you think I've made, I have a few that you've made and haven't noticed. The biggest one is our sex life. It's dwindling. We used to have sex at least 3-4 times a week. Now, I'm lucky to have it once every two. I miss that about you. The other I'll mention is your lack of interest in my day. You used to care about how my day went. Now it's usually all about yours. You never ask anymore. I know you got the new job and you're excited but I have things going on that you should be interested in knowing.

I don't believe that you're actually annoyed at me missing a few chair pulls or door opens. Oh I guess the other change you've made is your new ability to turn small things into inflated problems (like this).
Added by crybaby45 (male)
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