Innocent Fun
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Side 1 says...
I have a lot of trust issues when it comes to my husband (of 10 years) and strip clubs. The past is in the
past so I will start this in the present! After MANY promises my husband still spends a lot of time at strip clubs.
He went to a few places that his exes worked. He often goes alone and I tell him that he's not single.
He sweet talks me and tells me that I'm everything to him and he is just going to "get away".
(That's after he was caught in his lies about where he was going).
I have found a phone number of a bartender and he says he got the number for his "ego" and to look good in front of his friends. He has even had my brother lie to me about where he was at.
Now~ Don't get me wrong, I have been a few times in the past year for Girls night out etc.
and even gone to strip clubs with him and other friends a few times. But from my point of view he isn't going for "innocent fun." I tell them that he expects to much from me and I feel that no one else would put up with this. I know that he will never stop going so my question is should I just turn a blind eye toward his
"innocent fun" or just walk away .
past so I will start this in the present! After MANY promises my husband still spends a lot of time at strip clubs.
He went to a few places that his exes worked. He often goes alone and I tell him that he's not single.
He sweet talks me and tells me that I'm everything to him and he is just going to "get away".
(That's after he was caught in his lies about where he was going).
I have found a phone number of a bartender and he says he got the number for his "ego" and to look good in front of his friends. He has even had my brother lie to me about where he was at.
Now~ Don't get me wrong, I have been a few times in the past year for Girls night out etc.
and even gone to strip clubs with him and other friends a few times. But from my point of view he isn't going for "innocent fun." I tell them that he expects to much from me and I feel that no one else would put up with this. I know that he will never stop going so my question is should I just turn a blind eye toward his
"innocent fun" or just walk away .
Added by thechick (female)
Side 2 says...
O.k first off me and my wife have been together about 12 years and in that time i feel i have been faithful ,now we have had our issues like any couple and have split up a few times once for about 9 months and in that time yeah i ha d some fun and was'nt faithful at this time and neither was she but for some reason she always feels i'm still cheating on her.she goes to male strip bars with her friends but if i go anywhere and i mean anywhere at night she assumes i'm automatically cheating and at a titty bar .I make music and she has told me many times that shes afraid to lose me,and i always tell her i will be there for her and my kids ,I work hard i own my own business (which she does help me with paperwork)and i feel i'm a great father my little girls love me to death,as for me the same.I only do music in my free time and i sometimes feel like this is my getaway and every now and then i like to go have a drink.and honestly thats all i did thats causing this argument now .I went to watch a fight at the strip club and i lied i told her i was at my friends why did i lie because if i told her i wanted to get away from the house for a little while to watch the fight at the strip bar all hell would of broke loose.Even though shes been with me numerous times and she forgot to mention she was a titty dancer oops was i supposed to say that.so do i feel i'm wrong no i feel that shes being hypocritical.the only thing i'm wrong for is lying and i've already admitted that and told her im sorry.and she always thinks i'm going to see some stripper i know or to meet there i don't want no stripper my wife is beautiful and has a great job and we have a beautiful family.once again i'm not a bad guy i just wanted to get away sorry..............................zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Added by nomad (male)
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