She's Being Too Needy

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Side 1 says...
My girlfriend insists that I spend more time with her. I'm taking a lot of hard classes right now and feel we should limit our time together to just weekends. We've been together for 6 months and usually hang out almost every day, but I need to focus my time on school now. Is that too much to ask? It's not my fault that she has so much free time and can't think of other things to do.
Added by guernica317 (male)
Side 2 says...
When school started he told me he would ALWAYS make time for me. I find it hard to believe that hes too busy every day of the week from morning to night to see me for just a little bit. Can't he at least have lunch or dinner with me at some point during the week? We go to the same school, take classes in the same buildings... I know he can make time, he just doesn't try or care to try. He has 8 roommates who all have friends at his house every day and he takes time to hang out with them, but I'm not allowed to come over because I'm "too distracting". There was a time when he wanted to spend everyday with me, and he would do anything it took to see me even if for just half an hour. If he wanted to spend time with me he would make time, but he doesn't want to. Why should I stay in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want to spend time with me? I really like him, but the feelings don't seem to be mutual.
Added by lcahern (female)
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