Not Good Enough For Him ?

I have a long distance relationship. We've been together for seven years. Believe it or not, we have NOT have sex. We have done other things, except THAT! Out of the seven years we've been together, we broke up twice. First time he went back with his ex wife stating he thought God wanted him to give it another try. Of course they had sex. The second time, he dumped me stating his spirit did not feel comfortable with me, Third day after he dumped me, he went out with another girl and had sex with her, Call me stupid, but I did take him back. Sex? No sex yet, Am I not good enough for him ?