we've been married for 10 years we did not celebrate it yet its been over a month and I want to He don't

we have alot going on with family, new jobs, a death 3 months ago, but we've manage to hang in there thru thick and thin i feel 10 years is a milestorne and i want to celebrate it in some way not using a lot of money just me and him. he dont act like its important.