Who is at fault and who is to blame

I met this man, Yes I knew that he was married but the thing is that he gave me every indication that the marriage was over he persued me we dated for over a year and now it is over because I wanted to be with him and he wasn't ready to end his marriage but at the same time wanted to be with me, told me that he was in love with me wish that I was his wife, when a man says something like that what would you think.