wt a gal to do when all the money in the marriage is secreatly put in a safe box in a bank.

we had agrements and he hit me so did i afterward and called the cops 2 time he now is telling me that he will not really give any money to me and i don't want it either but the feeling of untrust he has for me now is killing me because wt else am i living for and left for if not to have a happy family?