WHAT IS WRONG WHEN YOU CANT GET THE MAN YOU LOVE TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU ?

I dont understand why i cant get what i need from him when we are in bed it seems like he is not into me i cant get the 4play from him its like he is afraid to touch and most of the time when we have sex its early morning hrs when i am half awake like roll over get your rocks off type thing .i cant seem to get him to take his time and try to get into me what in the hell is going on here i am clean i dont have a terrible smell whats happening oh and we live together .