Women, why do you keep doing it?

I see lots of questions here from women complaining that we males don't listen. We do listen, but we (M and F) are not communicating. Men need to be given options, a choice. Do not ask us open ended question as we don't answer them, or if we do, you often don't like the reply. We want to answer in simple ways. We are not ignoring you, we are often simply trying to work out a way out of the minefield that you have laid for us........