what is so hard about a text???

My fiance thinks its ok to go out at night and not come home without texting or a phone call expecting i know where he is. I cannot call mobiles on the home phone and hardly ever have credit on my mobile to call him to see if hes coming home. Sometimes when he goes out he will call and say hes just finishing his beer but dosnt come home for hours after. He says he is a man "what is that soposed to mean". I know he works hard but i work part time to and we have 2 kids and i hardly go out.