What is some advice for a married couple whom Obama is destroying their marriage?

I am a conservative, i read bills, pay attention to the news, and keep my self informed from various avenues of news. My wife is a republican but that's it, she knows nothing else... She is a sheep and actually is falling for the rhetoric that Obamacare will help this nation. When i tell her what's really in the bill she calls me paranoid, or makes fun of me in jest...it really irks me. What are some ways i can open her eyes to the danger this country is in?