Is your partner entitled to know about sexual abuse?

Do you think as a boyfriend or girlfriend, you or they(someone else) are entitled to know whether your/their partner has been raped/abused in the past(whether as an adult or child)?

Does the partner who has been abused have an obligation to tell?

My thoughts
I think they should tell because most likely there is still some problems/trauma…
i was raped by my father and my boyfriend found out (the hard way)! one night we were getting frisky and he picked me up and I flipped the f*** out and started shaking and crying uncontrollably…so its probably a good idea to tell them before something gets out of hand and so they know where the lines are and not to cross them :)
What are your thoughts?
By gonesailing 8 years ago :: Dating
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