my wife is friends with a male stripper

my wife met a stripper right before we got married, even though she was trying to hook him up with her friend, i knew he was really into my wife. she also admitted to him trying to get in her pants. even though i haven't seen him in a long time, they've been keeping in touch on a web sight. i don't want to be the jealous type, but at the same time i feel like i'm being disrespected. i know if i had afemale stripper contacting me, all hell would break loose... wut would u do???