Is it selfish or a compromise?
I wanted to go to Galena to my boss' summer home for the weekend. J wanted to stay in the area and go fishing. There is plenty of fishing in Galena, but he didn't want to go because he wants to fish with HIS friends. I go to his parents & sister's house all the time and am bored out of my mind, but I put on a smile and am polite. He makes sure everyone knows he is having a bad time. I think it is selfish. His idea of a compromise is finding something HE wants to do that I will agree to, but never does anything I want to do.
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