Worries About Me Being 21

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Side 1 says... I turned 21 years old the end of Jan. Almost 3 weeks ago. I have never been a big partyer. I was completely against it until my last year of high school. Throughout college, Ive had a few times where I went a little overboard (one semester, and i didnt even know kyle yet!) last semester, there were maybe a 2-3 times where he saw me pretty drunk, and he had to take care of me once. Definately not my best moments, but i say thats pretty good for a college student. Before I turned 21, he would excessively worry about it because he has seen so many of his friends change after they turned 21. Im different and I still dont think he gets that. Sure, I still wanna go out and have a good time every now and then, but honestly for the most part, i have no desire to. The bars smell soooo bad! It takes forever to get that awful smell out of your hair! I went out the night of my 21st birthday, and havent gone out since. I wrote on a few of my friends's facebook walls telling them that once they turn 21 we should all go out to the bars or something, He gets angry at me when say that because he thinks im lying to him about not having the desire to go out. I dont have the desire to go out most of the time, but that doesnt mean I feel like that 24/7...just for the most part.
Added by AMBERRYAN07 (female)
Side 2 says... Worry... that's all it is on my part, and not denouncement. Lets start by saying that I never tell her not to go out to the bars nor that I dont want her to have a few drinks with her friends. I will have one or two every now and then with my friends, so Im not looking down on her for it. We even drink wine together on special occasions which shows that im ok with it in moderation. I just want her to be carefull because I know some of her close friends enjoy hitting the bars hard and often. I did see her go overboard a few times last semester and that was before she turned 21. Now that she is able to drink legally and openly I just dont want her to fall into into a routine that I have seen so many of my friends get into. If she had some very bad situations before she was legal, do you not see my worry now that she is 21? She tells me she doesnt like going to the bars, yet that is a common offer to many of her friends when looking for something to do.
Added by a_jesus_freak05 (male)
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