What do I do about my boyfriend who plans to marry someone else?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year plus. We have an awesome thing going on now. Before we started dating, he was a serial womaniser and he did forgive me for cheating him.
But I do not think that I have a future with him. He is 30 and I am 20. And his parents are in India who expect him to marry a girl of their choice. And knowing him, he would probably agree to his parents' wish. Though he has been fobbing his parents off for about 3 years regarding marriage. We have agreed that us breaking up will be mutual and we will remain friends.
So, am I wasting my time with him since I do not fit into his marriage plans? What do I do? Do I break up with him now when everything is good? Or do I wait for him to do it when he gets married?
By Shalu 10 years ago :: Dating
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