Guys, what makes you speak to a girl?

Ok I'll try (and probably fail) to keep this brief : )

I'm 21 years old, work full-time in the government, live by myself and study in my spare time. I'm slim, take pride in my appearance and have been told I'm pretty (although each to their own :P ).

I consider myself to be fairly observant - I can tell when people are looking at me/talking about me etc. Lately I've noticed guys looking at me (newly single - long relationship) in a way that suggests they'd like to talk to me; but I seem to only get a quick smile and then a glance away.

I'm a bit old-fashioned, in that I like to be pursued. I've got nothing against girls asking guys out but to me it takes some of the fun out of it.

What do you think? And guys, is there anything a girl has done (or you wished she'd do) that makes it easier for you to approach her?

Thanks all!
By schmiggle 9 years ago :: Dating
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