Is there a number of guys a girl has to sleep with before you can consider her a slut? Same for guys?

I've always been curious about this. Maybe I'm just bored on a sat night. Anyway, I've slept with 12 girls and I'm 23. Does that make me a slut?

I know those girls weren't virgins. Are there even any left?

See, I am not against it. For me to take the plunge and actually get married, I would need to know the girl I'm gonna be with is good in bed. I think that would be a huge factor in a marriage so I don't see sleeping around as being so bad (and you wrap it up).

What if I'm just not finding the right one? Can I still be called a slut if it's a process?

Seriously, what is everyone's deepest thoughts on this?
By builtboy 8 years ago :: Dating
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