I want to get married but I think he is very happy with how things are. Is there a way to motivate a man...

I want to get married but I believe he is very happy with how things are. Is there a way to motivate a man without being pushy or threatening?
I have been dating my guy for a year now. I made it clear towards the beginning of our relationship that I am interested in only dating someone who is marriage minded.
He lives with his daughter in another state and has a high pressure job. He looks forward to our adventures since we always get together in a different location.
I asked him about our future and he said we will talk at the end of this month on our next trip together. Frankly I am scared. He wants to begin the trip with this conversation and I don’t think it will go well. I don’t want to be sad the whole trip.
My situation is different than his; I live alone and am very lonely in spite of having so many good friends and the perfect job.
I have previously offered to move to his town and he said he would prefer to move where I live.
I greatly appreciate all comments!
By Chloes 9 years ago :: Dating
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