Sidetaker... can we have a "neutral" or "neither" button for the sides?

Not that this is a big deal, but we recently had a side where both the people were... hmmm... lets say "challenged by the position", if by position you mean life in general. Many of us couldnt vote. They were both pretty sad and we thought they were both wrong. This wasnt the first time and I'm sure it wont be the last.

However, many of us have an obsessive desire to punch a button and indicte what we're thinking (thats what keeps us coming back, right?). SO, I was wondering if there was any possibilty of requesting one, or if its not possible it'd be interesting to hear why. Folks, feel free to chime in on what you think about this... (Like GB needs an invitation) :-)

Also, in a related subject, can we possibly have a way of changing our vote after submitting it? One side had some people vote one way, but when that person started posting replies, many changed their opinion of the situation.

Just some suggestions that I thought I'd take one for the team and ask. No biggie... let us know...