How to attend/get rid of unwanted/unliked guests?

I live in a joint family setup wid my hubby a kid,and my husband's brothers,one of them is married too n have two kids. Two of my husbands sisters live in another city,and whenever there s a big day,holiday or sum festival they come to live wid us. Both of them are married and have kids too. I dont get along wid them quite well becuz of different natures. When they come to live wid us,situation becomes unavoidable,they ruin my celebrations. All i do is playing the host. I want to spend these kind of festive times at my house wid my hubby n baby rather than attending the unwanted irritating guests.