Is It Rude?
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Side 1 says...
So saturday I go to my boyfriends house and he was helping his mom on the computer for about the first 30 minutes I was there which was not a big deal. While helping his mother he received a phone call from a friend that he went to college with, but since he was busy he let it go to voicemail.
So once he was finished with his mother he said that he was gonna make a call "real quick". So he calls the guy and begins to talk. Five minutes go by, 10 minutes go by, 15 minutes go by, finally 25 minutes go by and he finally gets off the phone. At this point he knows that I'm annoyed that he was on the phone that long completely ignoring me and he tries to break the ice by play fighting and saying in a "playing" way "I'm Sorry". I am flustered and it just annoyed me more that he sees no problem with what he did so I tell him your rude and since you ignored me for 25 minutes I'm gonna do that to you and see how you like it.
So for the next 25 minutes I sat there and I ignored him. Be it I know that its childish, I was pissed. So by me not saying anything to him, he in turned got mad at me and began to ignore me. So we are sitting there not saying anything to each other and when we finally decide to go get some food i go with him in order to talk.
In the car I tell him that I think that it was very rude for him to carry on a 25 minute conversation with someone while I'm there. I think that there is a better time and place to carry on a conversation that long.
I'd like to know : whether I am overreacting by saying that carrying on a conversation for 25 minutes while your girlfriend/boyfriend is there ok or if it is in fact rude?
So once he was finished with his mother he said that he was gonna make a call "real quick". So he calls the guy and begins to talk. Five minutes go by, 10 minutes go by, 15 minutes go by, finally 25 minutes go by and he finally gets off the phone. At this point he knows that I'm annoyed that he was on the phone that long completely ignoring me and he tries to break the ice by play fighting and saying in a "playing" way "I'm Sorry". I am flustered and it just annoyed me more that he sees no problem with what he did so I tell him your rude and since you ignored me for 25 minutes I'm gonna do that to you and see how you like it.
So for the next 25 minutes I sat there and I ignored him. Be it I know that its childish, I was pissed. So by me not saying anything to him, he in turned got mad at me and began to ignore me. So we are sitting there not saying anything to each other and when we finally decide to go get some food i go with him in order to talk.
In the car I tell him that I think that it was very rude for him to carry on a 25 minute conversation with someone while I'm there. I think that there is a better time and place to carry on a conversation that long.
I'd like to know : whether I am overreacting by saying that carrying on a conversation for 25 minutes while your girlfriend/boyfriend is there ok or if it is in fact rude?
Added by gingerbee (female)
Side 2 says...
Ok, so i was helping my mom download songs from tunes because she was completely clueless and yes that went on way longer than I would have wanted it too. My girlfriend was patiently waiting and I appreciated that. While doimng so, my old college roommate called that I hadn't spoken to in about a year. i knew it might be a lengthy conversation so I thought I would be able to finish explaining everything to my mom and downloading her requests faster if I wasn't having a second conversation on the phone so I ignored it for the time being.
So I finally finish helping my mom and decide to return the call. I knew it might be a good 30 minute conversation but I didn't think it would be a big deal because my girlfriend was spending saturday through monday with me and she had just came over that thursday too so it's not like we were lacking time together. She said I could've waited until she wasn't around but that wouldn't have been until monday afternoon and returning a call 3 days later is rude. So am I wrong for not avoiding my phone for 3 days while my girlfriend spends the weekend? Sometimes I need to make long calls on my days off. Sorry?
So I finally finish helping my mom and decide to return the call. I knew it might be a good 30 minute conversation but I didn't think it would be a big deal because my girlfriend was spending saturday through monday with me and she had just came over that thursday too so it's not like we were lacking time together. She said I could've waited until she wasn't around but that wouldn't have been until monday afternoon and returning a call 3 days later is rude. So am I wrong for not avoiding my phone for 3 days while my girlfriend spends the weekend? Sometimes I need to make long calls on my days off. Sorry?
Added by nonchalant (male)
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