Being Cheated On
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My boyfriend's best friend passed away last year and a few months afterwards, the people that knew his friend threw a party in his memory. I was also invited to this party with Joe.
Anyways, the couple days before the party we started arguing (mind you I was pregnant at the time), when the day of the party came, he went with out me and did not even tell me he was going. I finally called him and he told me where he was. I was utterly p"d off and hurt to say the least. I loved his friend like he was my brother.
Well he stayed there for several nights, and was suppose to have his own tent (for us) and he slept alone the first night, but claims that the next night the tent was taken home to whoever owned it and this girl we both know, had a tent and offered him to sleep in it with her. He did of course, one night he stayed with her in just boxers and claims nothing happened. Then the next night he said he slept in his clothes.
Well it took him a while to tell me but his story is that she tried to give him head and he let it start but he says he stopped it: Then he said is happened twice, but he did not get off and he supposedly stopped it both times. I mean how could you even let it start once?
Anyways, I have forgiven him, but he claims that nothing else happened,( I spoke with the chick and she says the head did not happen but did not elaborate on anything else.) I have tried asking many times again, but he still says nothing else happened. I trusted him before, and then he did this to me.
So now I do not know what to believe anymore. Somewhere in the back of mind I can't believe that nothing else happened and even if it didn't that he at least got off to the chick. I don't get it, this girl is like 5 times my size and she showers like once a week, am I not good enough for him? Not to mention that after a few days he came back and we made up from arguing, I asked him if he would come get me if he went back to the party, and he said he would, well he went back and didn't even tell me until he was already half way there. He still stayed with this chick in her tent.
I just don't get it, what should I do? Should I believe him or push the truth or what, leave him. I really love him and want to marry him but I can't do it until he ponies up the truth... Do you think that it is possible to stop that sort of thing from happening not only once but twice, and that nothing else happened?
Anyways, the couple days before the party we started arguing (mind you I was pregnant at the time), when the day of the party came, he went with out me and did not even tell me he was going. I finally called him and he told me where he was. I was utterly p"d off and hurt to say the least. I loved his friend like he was my brother.
Well he stayed there for several nights, and was suppose to have his own tent (for us) and he slept alone the first night, but claims that the next night the tent was taken home to whoever owned it and this girl we both know, had a tent and offered him to sleep in it with her. He did of course, one night he stayed with her in just boxers and claims nothing happened. Then the next night he said he slept in his clothes.
Well it took him a while to tell me but his story is that she tried to give him head and he let it start but he says he stopped it: Then he said is happened twice, but he did not get off and he supposedly stopped it both times. I mean how could you even let it start once?
Anyways, I have forgiven him, but he claims that nothing else happened,( I spoke with the chick and she says the head did not happen but did not elaborate on anything else.) I have tried asking many times again, but he still says nothing else happened. I trusted him before, and then he did this to me.
So now I do not know what to believe anymore. Somewhere in the back of mind I can't believe that nothing else happened and even if it didn't that he at least got off to the chick. I don't get it, this girl is like 5 times my size and she showers like once a week, am I not good enough for him? Not to mention that after a few days he came back and we made up from arguing, I asked him if he would come get me if he went back to the party, and he said he would, well he went back and didn't even tell me until he was already half way there. He still stayed with this chick in her tent.
I just don't get it, what should I do? Should I believe him or push the truth or what, leave him. I really love him and want to marry him but I can't do it until he ponies up the truth... Do you think that it is possible to stop that sort of thing from happening not only once but twice, and that nothing else happened?
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