Dating An Older Man - Is He Right To Make Demands?
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Side 1 says...
I am 19 and I have been having an affair with a man in his 40s for about a year. I really like him and I would love to have a proper relationship with him. Right now he only ever sees me for sex and we can't do anything together in public as he has a wife and family. He says he does not love her and he loves me but he isn't prepared to leave her unless I agree to move in with him straight away and get engaged. I don't want to get engaged as I feel I am too young but he says he won't leave her unless I do. Am I being too harsh wanting him to leave her and date me normally. I know he has a lot to lose but surely he should trust me?
Added by Patchworklove (female)
Side 2 says...
Oh my goodness I didn't think you would actually do this. Think I need to set the story straight. Firstly our relationship is not an affair and I don't just see you for sex. It's not like I don't get it at home and you are always saying no anyway! Secondly I do love you but I need to be sure that you feel the same way before I risk losing everything. I have been with my wife for 17 years and we have 2 children and various investments together. I can't afford to lose all that if there is nothing waiting for me on the other side. I think it is fair that you promise to be with me before I even consider leaving my family.
Added by bigben (male)
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