Is it fair for me to be upset and demand that this stop?

Been married for over 30 years, wife found out that an ex-classmate/boy friend lives only 30 minutes from us. He is single and owns a bar. They have rekindled thier relationship, much of it behind my back. Casino runs, visits at his bar, shopping, 200 to 300 text and phone calls a month. She insist that there is nothing physical going on, but needs his friendship at this time. They have had no contact for more than 30 years before this.
By otew446 10 years ago :: Marriage
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