husband not attracted to me anymore

my husband and I heaved been together the 11 years now and have a nine year old soon together. I'm 29 and he's 41. I am 1.73cm tall and weigh 68 kg and size 10 uk .I tell you this because it's important to the story. when he met more I was no doubt much smaller than I am now. i have noticed that he doesn't touch me or kiss me unless he is having sex with me. he is into his fantasies and I've noticed that for him to climax we need to talk abt the fantasies. he complains that I have a big tummy and that makes him unattracted to me and he only has sex with me when he feels like it. this makes me feel not worth loving and I have tried to touch him or kiss him randomly but all I get is lack of affection and sometimes he pushes me away. It worries me that I will have to deal with this for the rest of my marriage if I stay with him. a part of me thinks I should leave because for as long as I gain weight as I grow older then I will never feel like I'm good enough for him. I also worry abt the impact of divorce on my son. he is a responsible father and husband overalls but I jus think that attraction I a big issue. he is 1.83cm tall and weighs 93kg and he does have a belly that i have not complained abt. but maybe coz it doesn't bother me that much but I don't see how I can continue feeling rejected for more years to come. thanks in advance for your responses.
By mimi23 8 years ago :: Marriage
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