He Gets In Trouble And Uses Me As His Out
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Side 1 says...
So my boyfriend of 2 years is your typical bad boy - he rides motorcycles, has a bunch of tattoos, works out, etc. I love his type.
My problem is anytime he gets in trouble - a bar fight, speeding ticket, money - he uses me as his person to lean on. I'm either his alibi, witness, or loan. This used to be ok. I had less confidence then and just having this big strong guy was great for me. Now, though I love him, it is getting to be too much.
He doesn't think he does this to me. He thinks it's ok to ask me for money to pay a fine or lie to someone to get him out of trouble. I know what you're thinking...get rid of him cos he's not worth the trouble. The problem is aside from his faults he IS a good guy.
I just think he needs to understand he needs to grow up a little and take better care of me and his own life. He shrugs off his problems and lets them lie.
If anything, let him know that leaning on me for support of his habitual troubles are not my problem.
My problem is anytime he gets in trouble - a bar fight, speeding ticket, money - he uses me as his person to lean on. I'm either his alibi, witness, or loan. This used to be ok. I had less confidence then and just having this big strong guy was great for me. Now, though I love him, it is getting to be too much.
He doesn't think he does this to me. He thinks it's ok to ask me for money to pay a fine or lie to someone to get him out of trouble. I know what you're thinking...get rid of him cos he's not worth the trouble. The problem is aside from his faults he IS a good guy.
I just think he needs to understand he needs to grow up a little and take better care of me and his own life. He shrugs off his problems and lets them lie.
If anything, let him know that leaning on me for support of his habitual troubles are not my problem.
Added by whatshouldido (female)
Side 2 says...
Look hun, I only leaned on you once. I had a speeding ticket and I was short on cash. I did pay you back. the bar fight I used you for a witness because you were there and I didn't tell you to lie. He started the fight and you told them why. You're right. I did tell you to lie when I didn't stop at the stop sign but I was driving your car and would you rather us told the cop what you were really doing instead of lying about getting a shoelace caught on the brake pedal? I don't get in that much trouble. You just take things to extremes.
Added by badboyblues (male)
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