Rafael Morales Toia

MA-MS, MHT-MHRS :: Expert In Marriage Counseling

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About Me

You got married because of different reasons, and you stay married also because of different reasons. It is only in the process that you find out how things truly work or not.
Many people do really want to create a good marriage from its roots. Most people do want this, what does not mean it is an easy task at all nor always possible if keeping our ways and tendencies the same without openness and flexibility to change, grow and get wiser. Good things are not easy neither just appear. They take time and effort; and again, many times it is not only about who is there next to us, but how well we work together literally building not just a healthy, but a fulfilling marriage.
We could say that no real whole fulfillment could be experience in life without healthy and meaningful relationships, were our individual needs and expectation could be met, where we could feel not just "loved" and desired but respected, understood, supported and embraced by real caring, not in a codependent way but in a healthy and gentle manner.
My approach is focused on promoting your insight about why you think, feel and react the way you do in relationships, to support you to take advantage of your own skills and potential and to guide you on taking care of your emotional needs and wounds that are not allowing you to mindfully and gently take good care of your life and your relationships with others, especially when about that special person that gives much more meaning and hope to your life.
You could expect to receive sincere, ethical, assertive and emphatic support even in those moments when denial and avoidance are your worst enemies. I will challenge your ego and promote the awakening and nurture of your real self.
If you are serious about dating and relationships and were willing to work on the challenges it implies, I would like to offer my support to work with you on this challenging and fulfilling endeavor.


I have professional training/degree in psychology - BS-MS (1999); I have worked as a life coach and psychotherapist since 1996 in South America, as a mental health specialist in California, Arizona and Nevada since January 2002. My most recent degree is a MA in Integral-Transpersonal psychology from John F. Kennedy University. I have worked as a hypnotherapist in my private practice since 1996 and I was also trained and certified as a hypnotherapist in CA in 2003.


My professional experience was gained working at outpatient mental health clinics, non-profit agencies, inpatient clinics/hospitals, schools, workshops, coaching, parenting and self-development groups, institutes and through my private practice. I did extensive research in hypnotherapy since the beginning of the 90s. and gained personal and professional experience around multiple and very diverse cultural and social realities through my work experiences in USA, Peru, Bolivia, Brazil and Europe.

Latest 25 Of 2,283 Reviews

August 11, 2020

Joseph M
July 29, 2020
Thank you for your help; it truly meant a lot.

Joseph M
July 29, 2020
Rafael was very perceptive and a great listener.

July 14, 2020
Professional & understanding

July 1, 2020

June 17, 2020
Great help

June 16, 2020
great guy

June 3, 2020

May 31, 2020
Great advice!

May 29, 2020
Excellent feedback. Top shelf.

May 18, 2020
very caring

May 8, 2020

March 4, 2020
the best as always

February 26, 2020
excellent and kind advice

February 20, 2020

December 29, 2019
A much needed check in on journey. TY

December 21, 2019
timely advice

December 3, 2019
understanding and astute

December 1, 2019
Thank you for your support this time around.

November 26, 2019
Rafael was able to help so much and I found some avenues to explore, after tripping self up for awhile. SO TY.

November 25, 2019
Rafael is such a great listener and has helped me over the past 6 months with life in general!

November 20, 2019
Very Helpful

November 12, 2019
Enjoy speaking with you.

November 6, 2019
excellent and very wise

October 4, 2019
I"m getting there!! Thanks so much for your help.