Who Gets To Sleep In
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Side 1 says...
I work ten hour days four days a week. I also do schooling online. I wake up at 5:30am and go to bed close to midnight (the baby will cooperate so much, work in progress.) The baby still wakes up at night so I have to get up often. The husband refuses to get up at night with her. On the three days I am off I have to get up. He refuses to get up, decides to sleep in until... our example would be yesterday he slept in until after 12:30. I can't remember the last time I was allowed to sleep in.
Last night he told me if the baby wakes up a lot he will take the kids to school in the morning. I had to get them up to get dressed, baby wakes up and he decides to get up 5 minutes before they have to be at school. He slept even after I started waking him up 30 minutes prior. He also got mad at me telling me my voice nags. I think I should be allowed to sleep in some of the time. Like a half/half thing. When I am home he thinks of himself as on vacation. As soon as I get home I have to do everything and he'll watch movies on the computer. Same with weekends. He won't even change a diaper. I do one job, then start another. He is a good dad and does well with staying home with the kids, but I never get a moment like he does.
Last night he told me if the baby wakes up a lot he will take the kids to school in the morning. I had to get them up to get dressed, baby wakes up and he decides to get up 5 minutes before they have to be at school. He slept even after I started waking him up 30 minutes prior. He also got mad at me telling me my voice nags. I think I should be allowed to sleep in some of the time. Like a half/half thing. When I am home he thinks of himself as on vacation. As soon as I get home I have to do everything and he'll watch movies on the computer. Same with weekends. He won't even change a diaper. I do one job, then start another. He is a good dad and does well with staying home with the kids, but I never get a moment like he does.
Added by SAGACONTINUES (female)
Side 2 says...
My wife is correct when she says I don't want to get up early on the weekends. However, I feel that this is the time she needs to spend with the kids since she does not spend time during the week since she does not have time because of work and school. While she is at work for four days, ten hours a week I am gettig the kids clothes out the night before, getting their baths done, getting up in the morrinings getting them ready, feeding them walking them to school. When I get back home I feed the baby, I clean the house... dishes from the night before, do laundry and play with the baby all of this which we would call chores I do when the baby is up and raising hell since she is now up and walking. I also have two dogs that I take care of. So yeah I do sleep in on her days off. Does this make me a bad husband?
Added by ThisIsCrap (male)
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