No Lovin'
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Side 1 says...
Lovely fiancee, mostly great relationship except for one thing... he doesnt want sex! wont recipricate if i make a move.
He makes excuses, too tired, headache, toothache, long day at work, hungry, something good on tv. If I say come to bed he will say 'no Im not tired.'
Its starting to make me feel like there is something wrong with me. Im getting rebuffed, rejected and Ive approached it numerous times and he still wont approach ME for sex.
When we do have sex its mostly a quickie in the morning, and I dont get there.
Im soooooo frustrated. If I was happy to have sex with a vibrator for the rest of my life I would get a dog and get rid of the man! I cant have sex with any one else, I can go shopping with other people, he can play sport with other people, but we have signed up for sex exclusively.
I could happily find a Fu Buddy just to satisfy my needs but he wont let me.
Ive suggested counselling - NO, Movies - NO, books - NO, costumes NO... all not interested
He makes excuses, too tired, headache, toothache, long day at work, hungry, something good on tv. If I say come to bed he will say 'no Im not tired.'
Its starting to make me feel like there is something wrong with me. Im getting rebuffed, rejected and Ive approached it numerous times and he still wont approach ME for sex.
When we do have sex its mostly a quickie in the morning, and I dont get there.
Im soooooo frustrated. If I was happy to have sex with a vibrator for the rest of my life I would get a dog and get rid of the man! I cant have sex with any one else, I can go shopping with other people, he can play sport with other people, but we have signed up for sex exclusively.
I could happily find a Fu Buddy just to satisfy my needs but he wont let me.
Ive suggested counselling - NO, Movies - NO, books - NO, costumes NO... all not interested
Added by ImHungry (female)
Side 2 says...
Yes, she's mostly right. I do want sex but I'm probably not as horny as I was at 16. I feel very guilty that I haven't stepped up to plate as often & I love her very much, I hate that she feels rejected.
There's been many times when I just have felt tired and have had other things on my mind, but this is no excuse. It's obvious that she just wants it a lot more than me.
It's something I'm gonna have to fix very soon because I don't want to lose her.
There's been many times when I just have felt tired and have had other things on my mind, but this is no excuse. It's obvious that she just wants it a lot more than me.
It's something I'm gonna have to fix very soon because I don't want to lose her.
Added by I_Try (male)
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