Controlling

Side 1 says... Me and my husband have been married for over 16 years and he wants things to go his way or no way. For example, all of our 4 children are grown and he tries to tell the oldest daughter how to live her life. she is married with two children. Now on the other hand, our oldest son is in the army and really dosen't get the chance to communicate back and forth by calling home much and this makes my husband upset. Then we have the youngest son that ended up in prison for 4 years for being in the wrong place at the wrong time and then there is the youngest daughter, who just went into the army (she is married with a baby), but until August of 2007, we had not heard from her. My husband is driving me crazy because he feels as if the kids are grown, but his actions show me that he don't want to be bothered with them at all. I am their mother and a mother wants to see her children, especially for the holidays. He said that he did not want them at the house for christmas. It is my house too, I do work and pay bills there. He also has gotten to the point that he dosen't want me going to the gym to work out and to keep in shape. He dosen't like my sister and brother and he wants me not to like them too.