Why Can't My Wife Work Out At Home?

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Side 1 says... "Okay, so my wife and i just had our first baby about a month ago. My wife, now, is feeling like she would like to get back into a regular workout routine- Which is perfectly fine with me. The problem is she insists on getting a gym membership to do so. Now, the gym membership is only $20 a month so in that regard it's not that big of deal. My problems primarily are 1) she can't drive herself- she hasn't gotten her license, so it would turn into a nightly routine of having to take her down there, wait for two hours, drive back, not have her around to feed the new baby, etc, etc, and i think it would be more hassle than it's worth. My 2nd problem is that we are on a pretty tight budget right now, and $20 bucks plus gas is just money that we don't need to spend. When i pointed out that the best exercises for her particular situation (jumping rope, crunches, jogging, stair steps) can all be done at home, and will burn fat, and tone her postpartum belly and thighs as-well-or-better-than-the-gym, she accused me of not being supportive, and not taking ample concern regarding her desire to be fit and lean. Furthermore, she insisted that, as much as she might want to, jumping rope is impossible for a breast feeding mother. I, not being a woman, cannot answer this, but surely she is not the only large-chested rope-jumper in the world. Right?...
Added by marc98 (male)
Side 2 says... This is what I have asked my husband...
According to everything I have there is no such thing as spot-reducing exercises, but to burn fat you need to jog, bike etc. These are things I can do at the gym...we live in a college town and our apartment is located in the university area and the idea of going jogging in front of all the fit college students makes me feel self-conscious, therefore making it easier for me not to be motivated to do actually jog. I would feel much more comfortable in the gym, and much more motivated.
As for him driving me, it is right down the road from our apartment, Maybe a 5 minute drive, and he has never had a problem before running to the grocery store on a whim (which is right beside the gym), several times a week because he wants a specific thing to eat.
Also, I have a breast pump and our baby takes a bottle just fine, even further most breastfed babies can go 2 hours in between feedings, and If I go in the evenings Im sure our baby would sleep though me being gone.

I honestly do not understand what the big deal is, $20?
Added by bekahjoy (female)
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